Archive for December, 2009

All IN Smiles

December 16, 2009

I am now exited about Lalitha’s  back to normal and happy to note that she is burstling with activities once again.The energy she lost  about three weeks back is regained and the fear in my mind is complety vanished.I would like to see her this way than keeping herself in the bed and worrying about her children.I am also a relaxed person now and  I understand that I have to coperate with her in all her deeds.But the one thing I cannot compete with her is going out often for shopping which I can’t.My nature is such that I want to be at home always sitting on the computer or watching the cricket matches that are going through out the world.It is my passion.I see her now beautifully dressed and going for the music performances and to the temples and most of the time talking to her dear friends and relatives.I cannot bear the tension when she is sick and I want to see her in future too that she should be always happy with no health hazards.Hope god will give her more strength to carry on with the same vigour in the years to come.The happiness is seen in her face when she talk to her daughters is a scene to be watched.

sigh of relief

December 5, 2009

What a terrible time when one gets his betterhalf inactive for a couple of days and to see her back home was a great relief.The lonelyness for a couple of days without her actions at home made me crazy.I was like a mad man running around here and there with a lot of anxiety. All these years I have not come across this sort of a tension and it was absoutely new to me.My daughters repetedly asking me about her welfare and I can understand their feelings since they are far away from us and unable to extend their help at the time of crisis.All through her life she was worried about her children welfare and when she fell sick she was a bit upset.All my daughters used to ask me whether I took her for a blood test I was telling them it is not so serious since I took her to a local doctor who prescribed some medicines and said she will be ok.But when it went beyond my control I immediately decided to take her to the hospital and it was a right move at the right time.Anyway everything went on fine after she was admitted in the hospital and the relief a husband gets cannot be expressed in words.I am in great relief now to see that my wife is active once again and the smile in her face make me happy.Today she told me that she wants to go to the music festival in chettinad hall  and rang up to her Doctor asking his permission.When the doctor said that she can go she presented a big smile at me and left home beautifully dressed.It was a wonderful sight to see  happiness in her face which any husband will like to see.She should live long and continue to support me in life and so too  her children.The brightness in her face make me happy and I feel that I should give my support to her in the years to come.